When was the last time you evaluated what is profoundly important to you?
In our constant chasing to lead others and achieve audacious goals, we sometimes forget about what really matters. For me, lately I have been thinking of what and who are the most important to me. I don’t always get to visit family as much as I would like, or go on adventures with loved ones. But that doesn’t change how I feel about those I love. I also believe I don’t engage in things that bring me joy as much as I’d like. Is it my job, or something else? Am I taking the initiative to do and plan things for fun? Are you living in the moment, slowing down enough to enjoy life?
How often have we asked ourselves, what brings us joy? What really makes us tick? I know I have lost myself at times. We must slow down from time to time and visit those things that make us tick. By failing to do the things we enjoy, we risk slipping into a negative and unhealthy mindset. Also, we cannot forget those people in our lives that we love so much. Our parents, kids or grandkids make us better and are the reason we are who we are. In our high-tech times, there are a variety of ways to stay in contact with those we love. The most effective way to stay in contact is through conversations and one-on-one visits. Having children and grandchildren is so powerful for our lives, as they bring us a life of purpose. We must identify the ways we remain centered, and true to our internal-selves, or connected to those around us. This looks different for everyone. My religion plays an important role in remaining connected. Taking key steps to act and engage in self-preservation tasks is good for you, but even better for those around you.
What brings you joy, and how are you engaging in these practices?
Who are the most important people, and how are you staying connected?
How do you center yourself to what is most important in your life?
I often joke, when asked what I have been up to, that I go to work, come home, and repeat that vicious cycle over and over. Of course, I do more than that, but at times that is my reality. It is difficult, but I must act intentionally to remain centered. You should too. Take a moment this week, to evaluate your life, and slow down and enjoy it. Thanks for checking in this week and please leave as comment below that will contribute to this conversation.
Steve Bucks~ Leading Conversations and Leadership Coaching
~Maxwell Leadership Certified Team Member~
