Are you helping anyone, or do you need help?
I enjoy Zig Ziglar quotes. One in particular states, “You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” Most of the time it is my children who want something. Not really, they are good kids they do not ask for much. Truth be told, I enjoy giving them things. However, I do not think Mr. Ziglar was referring to tangible items that teenagers want. What I believe he was referring to are nonphysical acts, such as appreciation, guidance, acceptance, and simple kindness.
I went into school administration to help a larger population of students, and yes teachers too. Unfortunately, when you are rather new to administration you do not have all the answers. Who knew? I believe no one expects us to have all the answers all the time. What I hope they expect from me is understanding and guidance as well as assisting in seeking and finding the answers. Admitting you do not have answers is difficult, and a tough spot to be in at times. Be honest and embrace it.
We must try and help as many individuals we can, that is what educators do. It does not change as your position changes, helping others is always what we should do. In addition, we must help ourselves as well by seeking assistance from other trusted colleges when we can. We can do this by surrounding ourselves with like-minded people we trust to be honest with us. I have a group of outstanding Minnesota professionals that I trust whole-heartily. They give me a sense of rejuvenation after our conversations. I feel safe to try new things, without fear of failure. Is that not it? Make people feel great in your presence and they will seek you out when they require help. This is how we also make the greatest impact on students, make them feel great and they too will seek you out for the answers they require.
I hope you get everything you want out of like, and I hope you are helping others as well as asking for help.
What trusted group of individuals do you have that will help you?
Who can you help today?
What are failing to look at honestly and could you ask someone for help?
